The usefulness of Pro-Social Media is important for many reasons. For starters, the media tends to focus more on the negative than on the positive. In the reading by Mary Beth Oliver, she says that the news tend to focus more on crimes that Blacks commit versus crimes that Whites do. Tiggerman suggested that women prefer to be thin than overweight because that is mostly what is seen as normal in the media
This also proves to be true when people who say that marriage should be between one man and one woman. Groups like Westboro Baptist Church, Focus on the Family, and Defend the Family often say that gays will ruin the world. Westboro is known for its extreme views against homosexuality. Focus on the Family is known for trying to teach people that homosexual behavior violates God’s design for gender and sexuality. Defend the Family, also known as Abiding Truth Ministries mission is to promote and defend the Biblical view of marriage and family through education, training, and funding. They helped sponsor the Kill the Gays bill in Uganda.
There were many groups that chose to think more positive when it comes to marriage equality. One of these great groups is called the NOH8 Campaign. The NOH8 Campaign was established in 2008 when proposition 8 passed in California, banning same sex marriages. California had allowed for same sex marriage in 2004, but was challenged and voters voted to ban same sex marriage in 2008. According to their website, their campaign is a “photographic silent protest created by celebrity photographer Adam Bouska and partner Jeff Parshley in direct response to the passage of Proposition 8. Photos feature subjects with duct tape over their mouths, symbolizing their voices being silenced by Prop 8 and similar legislation around the world, with “NOH8″ painted on one cheek in protest.” They have had many people from all around the world take a stand against Prop 8. Proposition 8 was officially overturned on August 4, 2010. Opponents appealed their ruling and took it to the Supreme Court and on June 26, 2013, they were told that their motion was denied due to lack of direct injury required by well established precedential standards. Same sex marriage in California resumed on June 28, 2013. Although Prop 8 has been overturned, they still fight to have marriage equality in all 50 states. As of November 6, 2013 15 states (Massachusetts, California, Connecticut, Iowa, Vermont, New Hampshire, DC, New York, Washington, Maine, Maryland, Rhode Island, Delaware, Minnesota, New Jersey, and Illinois) have passed laws that says that same sex marriage should be legal. Illinois will allow same sex couples to wed beginning on June 1, 2014.
I believe that pro-social media is making a positive influence on today’s youth. Too often, we focus on the negative while we should be focusing more on the positive things. I feel that if youth see their favorite celebrities or their idols standing for marriage equality, then maybe they will want to stand up for marriage equality as well.
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